He never talks about his feelings for you, oftentimes seems detached, may disappear for several days and not answer your messages. But you are still drawn to him despite this coldness and aloofness?
Well, beside an overwhelming love, there are pretty prosaic causes for such affection.
Unflappable posture
Experts say that many really smart, good and positive girls are attracted to men that seem to be completely not interested in them because of their confident and calm manner of behaviour.
From Dawson City to Ottawa women for men can do a lot and can even ignore the obvious lack of interest for the sake of a general image of a strong, self-composed man by their side. It seems to a woman that a physically attractive man, who has excellent control over his emotions, is able to control a lot in life.
Unfortunately, in the case of a man who is not very interested in you, such behaviour usually means that he simply doesn't want to be emotionally involved in your relationships.
Enigmatic persona
Since these men don't want to build deep bonds with you and feel indifferent about your relationships, they typically do not get into any arguments or discussions, avoid any quarrels, and are not likely to share a lot about themselves. Such reserved behaviour may oftentimes give women the sense of mystery, and make them want to find out what is hiding behind that surface.
However, usually it all can be explained by a banal desire to stay apathetic and detached.
Low self-esteem
Women, who find men not-interested in them appealing, sometimes consider it to be completely normal because of a strong belief that they in general do not deserve reciprocal love from men.
That’s why the key for a successful relationship for many women is to fall in love with themselves first, discover new things in life and enjoy it to the fullest.
Because when you find an interest in life and feel your own peculiarity, you will find that you are surrounded by people, including men, truly interested in you. And one of them, perhaps, will become the only one for you. A man, willing to give you the support and attention you need.